Here’s a guide to thoughtfully respond when someone accuses you of being “woke,” depending on the context and your desired tone:
1. Clarify What They Mean
The term “woke” has different interpretations, so it’s important to ask for clarification. This approach opens dialogue instead of fueling confrontation.
Example:“What do you mean by ‘woke’? I want to make sure I understand where you’re coming from.
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2. Acknowledge the Conversation Without Defensiveness
If the accusation feels like a jab, try to de-escalate by showing you’re open to discussing differences without being combative.
Example:“I see the word ‘woke’ being used in a lot of ways lately. I’d love to hear why you think that applies to me.”
3. Define “Woke” Positively (If You Agree With Its Principles)
If you don’t mind being associated with the term, reframe it in a way that reflects your values.
Example:“If by ‘woke’ you mean being aware of social issues and caring about fairness, then yes, I guess I am. I think those are good things.”
4. Shift the Focus Back to the Issue at Hand
Sometimes, accusations of being “woke” are used to shut down a conversation. Redirect the focus to the substance of the discussion.
Example:“It sounds like you disagree with my perspective. Let’s talk about the actual issue and why we see it differently.
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